Life has a way of evolving, often taking us through unexpected yet profoundly enriching phases. Recently, I’ve found myself immersed in motherhood, a journey that has rekindled my passion for philosophy—a subject I minored in during my undergraduate years. Those days were filled with debates and endless perspectives, teaching me that there are no right or wrong answers, just different ways of seeing the world.
Motherhood, I’ve discovered, is the ultimate philosophical experience. It connects you more deeply to the animal kingdom and the natural world than any other role. Despite our human-made environments filled with capitalism, possessions, and societal structures, at our core, we are mammals. This realization struck me profoundly as I navigated the journey of nurturing new life.
Watching my children grow, I’ve seen the raw, instinctual behaviors that unite us with other mammals. The innate drive to protect, nurture, and watch over our young is something that transcends our human complexities. I’ve leaped over sofas to save a child from falling—an instinctive reaction I never knew I had. Understanding each child’s needs and rhythms has become second nature, blending experience with an almost primal knowledge.
This journey has underscored the importance of reflection—a cornerstone of both philosophy and personal growth. As I’ve embraced motherhood, I’ve learned to cherish the present moment, recognizing that our children’s youth is fleeting. In our bustling lives, it’s easy to overlook the beauty of the now, but these moments are irreplaceable.
COVID-19 brought a unique opportunity for many to reconnect with family and appreciate the simpler things in life. Yet, as the world rushes back to its relentless pace, we risk forgetting those valuable lessons. My summer of reflection and presence with my children has been challenging, yes, but incredibly rewarding. It’s a reminder that while work and ambitions can wait, our children’s formative years cannot.
So, my message to you is this: Take a moment to embrace the present. Relish the time with your loved ones. Life is a series of fleeting moments, and it’s the appreciation of these moments that truly enriches our journey. Let’s not lose sight of what matters most in the pursuit of the next big thing. Live boldly, reflect deeply, and cherish every step of the way.
